There are many ways to do a blowjob. You can do it standing, kneeling (as often seen in porn), or from the bed.
When doing a blowjob, it’s important to focus on your own pleasure as well. You can do this by licking, kissing and stroking the shaft. You can also add a bit of pressure and play with the head.
1. Use your tongue
A good blowjob involves a lot more than just sucking and licking. It’s also about stroking, touching and even rubbing the area. The best way to do this is with your tongue, which can feel amazing on a penis. It’s a little awkward, but if you have the right height with your partner, then it can be really hot.
Another great trick is to lick the tip of his dick and then push it up against the roof of your mouth. This can cause orgasm in many people. Don’t worry if you can’t orgasm from this, though — it’s not the point of a good blowjob.
Some people believe that gay men are naturally good at giving head. But that doesn’t mean that they’re all good at it, and a bad blowjob can ruin the whole experience. It’s also important to remember that STIs and STDs don’t just spread through penile penetration. They can spread through oral or anal sex as well. This is why it’s so important to use condoms during sex.
2. Make eye contact
Oral sex, fellatio – call it what you will – is one of the sexiest pleasures in gay play. It’s a precursor to bigger things, or it can be the main event. It can involve powerplay or just be for his enjoyment, but it’s important to know how to do it well.
A lot of people think that virgins can’t get an STD or STI because they haven’t had sexual intercourse. But that’s not always the case. Virgins can get STIs or STDs in many ways, including non-sexual intimacy like sharing a needle. The key is to use condoms to prevent infection, and frequent testing to see if you are infected.
When doing a blowjob for a man, it’s important to make eye contact with him occasionally. This will add a little extra spice to your oral pleasure, and he’ll appreciate it. It’ll also help you figure out how big his penis is so that you don’t accidentally scrape your teeth against it while licking it. This is a common mistake in gay porn, but it’s easy to avoid.
3. Take his cock out of your mouth
When sucking his cock, be sure to take it out of your mouth often and lick the head (where his glans are) and the base. This gives him more pleasure and helps keep the wood in good condition. You can also lick and tease the shaft of his penis. Just be careful not to bite it as that hurts.
Don’t forget about his balls, either. The scrotum sack is packed with sensitive nerve bundles. You can lick and massage them to get him revved up. You can even stick your tongue in his peehole if you’re feeling bold.
You can even lick the inside of his cock to get him ready for deeper play. You can also try different positions while giving him head. For example, you can lean over his back and suck his cock from that position. This is a common position in gay pornography and it can be very pleasurable for both of you. You can also try 69ing, which is when both of you are sucking each other’s heads at the same time.
4. Establish hand contact
Oral sex, fellatio, blowjobs, whatever you want to call it, is an amazing way for gays to pleasure their partner. However, it can be dangerous if done incorrectly.
To avoid this, don’t be afraid to use your hands while giving a blowjob. Stroke his chest, nipple, belly, thighs, perineum – anything to add to the pleasure that your mouth is already providing.
Just be sure that your hands don’t touch his penis, which can cause pain and bruising. It also helps if you’re using a stroker, such as a Fleshjack.
Another thing you can do is to lick his glans and shaft, which are both full of sensitive nerve bundles. You can also lick and stroke his nutsack, which, when done right, can send waves of pleasure down his peen. Just remember to lick slowly and with a rhythm that fits your partner. Doing so can really ramp up the intensity and boost your chances of achieving orgasm. Also, it will diversify your oral play and prevent you from falling into a sex rut.
5. Keep it moving
Keeping the action moving is important when doing a blowjob for your man. It helps to build the tension and the excitement of sexual climax. It also gives your man a reason to stay in the moment, and not want to stop.
Keep the kissing and hand jobs going, and slowly build up to sucking his cock and then to anal sex (but don’t let him cut to the chase and have sex immediately). It’s a good idea to take things very slow, especially if he’s a virgin, so that he gets a taste of what it’s like to be licked by a woman.
Many guys, especially hefty ones, like to put their own dicks in their mouths. It’s a really primal thing that’s pretty fun to do, and it adds a whole new dimension to giving head. Use your hands to massage and lick the anus as well. It’s a very sensitive spot and is a great way to give a blowjob. It’s also a great way to show your partner that you’re paying attention to all the little details.
